“So David arose from the ground, washed, anointed himself and changed his clothes; and he came into the house of the Lord and worshiped.” II Samuel 12:20
A complete review of this passage finds no songs of praise, no musical attributes and no reference to singing. But let the focus from this passage be the simple statement of what David did, “…he came into the house of the Lord and worshiped.” To understand the importance of this passage look at the context of the chapter.
David has been informed by Nathan the prophet that his son, by Bathsheba, would die. Any parent would recognize this to be heart-wrenching, devastating news. The death of a loved one hurts and leaves a void in our hearts, but the death of child has no comparison. In this passage, David pleads for the life of his child, and according to the scriptures he “…fasted and went and lay all night on the ground.” During this first (and only) week of the child’s life David pleads to God for mercy and refuses any comfort from the elders of his household. His hope is that God will renew the child’s health and let him live. But when the child dies, because of the extreme grief shown by David, the servants are afraid to tell him the painful news.
It’s interesting that though David isn’t informed of his sons death, he, “…perceived that the child was dead…”. Seeing the actions of his servants told him all he needed to know. But why did David’s demeanor change after his son died? Why wouldn’t he have mourned all the more? Most of us experience the depth of sorrow after our loved one’s death. But instead, David goes into the house of the Lord to worship. (Note: Most likely this was a demonstration of his acceptance to God’s disciplinary action for the death of his sin…the child born of Bathsheba was illegitimate. Nathan prophesied the child’s death.)
When we face the death of a loved one, we don’t see this as punishment or retribution from God’s hand. We see it for what it is, a loss. Whether anticipated at the end of a long life or unexpected in the earliest days of life, death is bitter for those left behind. When death comes, we feel its sting (I Corinthians 15:55). Perhaps that is one of the reasons why we mourn at a loved one’s death. But for the Christian, when he dies, we might consider the approach that David took in 2 Samuel 12. The Christian can worship when facing death, because of the hope we have in Christ. The loss we feel in death is temporary for the child of God because we know, “Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His godly ones.” Psalm 116:15
Recently we have experienced several deaths at our home congregation. Some are extended family members who had been struggling with health issues and some were older, faithful servants who had lived a long life for God. But recently a young family lost their baby 8 days before she was due. Such a loss is heart wrenching and leaves us at a loss for words. How do you comfort a young couple who was excited to begin their family? What can be said to console a young lady who had hoped to celebrate Mother’s Day with her baby girl? My only consultation is to remember the words and actions of a man ‘…after (God’s) own heart…’ Acts 13:22. David said in 2 Samuel 12:23, “But now he has died; why should I fast? Can I bring him back again? I will go to him, but he will not return to me.”
The faithful child of God realizes that this life is temporary. We grieve when we loss a family member, but we also understand that ‘this world is not my home.’ If you are a child of God and death knocks at your door, your loved ones will have the blessed assurance of your victory. They’ll see death for what it is; precious in the sight of the Lord. Painful? For us, yes. Filled with sorrow at the loss? Certainly, but also a time for all believers to ‘come into the house of the Lord and worship.’